• Message: “Through the Eyes of a Child: Embracing Humility and Wonder” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." "Through the Eyes of a Child: Embracing Humility and Wonder" Lesson Objective: To discuss why Jesus used children for teaching adults Scripture: Matthew 18:3, "And he said: 'Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven Attributes of Children compared to adults: Introduce the central Bible verse: A. Matthew 18: 1-5 At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who, then, is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” 2 He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. 3 And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4 Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5 And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me. How do we begin to act as a Child? Scripture: Romans 12: 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will Attributes of a Child • Humility: Scripture: Proverbs 11:2, "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." a. Children's Attribute: Children often display a natural humility, characterized by a lack of ego and an openness to learning and guidance. They are more likely to accept their limitations and seek help. b. Biblical Example: In the story of Naaman and the young Israeli girl (2 Kings 5:1-14), the girl's humble suggestion leads Naaman to Elisha, who cures him of leprosy. Despite her lowly position, her advice is pivotal. This story contrasts the humility of the child with the initial pride and skepticism of Naaman, an adult in a position of power. c. Adult Application: Adults can learn to embrace humility by acknowledging that wisdom and good advice can come from anyone, regardless of their age or social standing. B. Faith and Trust: a. Children's Attribute: Children often exhibit a remarkable capacity for faith and trust. They tend to believe and trust wholeheartedly, without the cynicism or skepticism that adults might have. b. Biblical Example: David in the story of David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17) exemplifies this childlike faith and trust. Despite his youth and the skepticism of those around him, David trusts in God's protection and defeats Goliath. c. Use the story of Abraham and Isaac (Genesis 22) to illustrate trust in God, paralleling Isaac's trust in his father d. Adult Application: Adults can learn from this by nurturing a faith that does not waver in the face of challenges and by trusting in a higher power or in the goodness of others, even when circumstances seem daunting. C. Wonder and Curiosity: a. Children's Attribute: Children approach the world with a sense of wonder and curiosity. They are eager to explore, ask questions, and are often amazed by the world around them. b. Biblical Example: The boy with five loaves and two fish in the feeding of the five thousand (John 6:9-11) demonstrates this attribute. His willingness to offer what little he has without questioning how it will be used shows a pure, unquestioning attitude. c. Adult Application: Adults can learn to rekindle their sense of wonder and curiosity, approaching life with a willingness to explore new ideas and embrace opportunities with an open heart, much like a child. D. Unconditional Love:** a. Children's Attribute:** Children often exhibit unconditional love. They love and forgive easily, without holding grudges. b. Biblical Reflection:** Jesus' commandment to love one another (John 13:34) echoes this childlike capacity for unconditional love c. Adult Contrast: Adults sometimes love conditionally, allowing past hurts, prejudices, or expectations to influence their ability to love and forgive E. Simplicity: a. Children's Attribute:** Children often have a knack for simplifying complex situations. They tend to focus on the basics and can cut through the noise that adults often get caught up in. b. Biblical Reflection:** Consider Jesus' teachings in the Gospels, where he often used simple stories and parables to convey deep spiritual truths. c. Adult Contrast:** Adults tend to overcomplicate matters, getting entangled in details and what-ifs, which can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety F. Honesty and Authenticity: a. Children's Attribute: Children are known for their honesty and authenticity. They speak their minds and are true to their feelings b. Biblical Reflection: The call to truthfulness in Ephesians 4:25 ("Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor...") can be seen as a call to embrace childlike honesty c. Adult Contrast: Adults often mask their true thoughts and feelings, either to conform to social norms or to avoid conflict G. Inclusivity and Acceptance a. Children's Attribute:** Children are naturally more inclusive and accepting. They are less likely to judge others based on race, religion, or background b. Biblical Reflection:** Jesus' acceptance of various people, including those marginalized by society c. Adults often develop biases and prejudices, sometimes leading to exclusion and discrimination H. Joy and Enthusiasm Psalms 148: 1-4 Praise ye the LORD. Praise ye the LORD from the heavens: praise him in the heights. 2 Praise ye him, all his angels: praise ye him, all his hosts. 3 Praise ye him, sun and moon: praise him, all ye stars of light. 4 Praise him, ye heavens of heavens, and ye waters that be above the heavens. a. Children's Attribute: Children typically approach life with joy and enthusiasm. They find happiness in the simplest things and are often more present in the moment b. Biblical Reflection The Psalms often reflect a sense of joy and wonder in creation c. Adult Contrast:** Adults can become jaded or indifferent, losing that spark of joy in everyday life due to the pressures and routines of adult responsibilities Conclusion - The story of Jesus and the children (Matthew 19:13-14) emphasizes Jesus' own appreciation for the qualities of children

• Message: “Importance of Music” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." The importance of music in our lives Lesson Objective: To discuss how we can implement music in our daily routines that can bring us closer to God. 1. Scriptures: Ephesians 5:19 - "Speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord." 2. Colossians 3:16 - "Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts." 3. Psalm 95:1-2 - "Come, let us sing for joy to the Lord; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation. Let us come before him with thanksgiving and extol him with music and song." Introduction A. Music in itself means absolutely nothing. One cannot tell the difference between gospel music and secular music without the words B. Verses in Psalms were written in Hebrew prose/poetry so that they could be put into songs format. C. Song lyrics directly from the Bible • Create in Me a Clean Heart" by Keith Green • Scripture Reference: Psalm 51:10-12 • This song is a direct prayer from Psalm 51, where King David asks God for forgiveness and renewal. • "Thy Word" by Amy Grant • Scripture Reference: Psalm 119:105 • The chorus of this song is a direct quote from Psalm 119:105, "Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Other Examples of meaningful songs "What a Friend We Have in Jesus" by Joseph M. Scriven and Charles C. Converse 1. **John 15:15** - "I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you." 2. **Philippians 4:6-7** - "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." 3. **1 Peter 5:7** - "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." 4. **Psalm 55:22** - "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." "Amazing Grace" by John Newton and Your Grace and Mercy- Mississippi Mass Choir 1. **Ephesians 2:8-9** - "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast." 2. **2 Corinthians 12:9** - "But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me." 3. **Romans 5:8** - "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." 4. **John 9:25** - "He replied, 'Whether he is a sinner or not, I don’t know. One thing I do know. I was blind but now I see!'" "Break Every Chain" by Will Reagan **Psalm 107:14** - "He brought them out of darkness, the utter darkness, and broke away their chains."1. **Luke 4:18-19** - "The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor." 2. **John 8:36** - "So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." 3. **Galatians 5:1** - "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." "The Blood That Jesus Shed Way Back on Calvary" by Andre Crouch 1. **Ephesians 1:7** - "In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace." 2. **Hebrews 9:22** - "In fact, the law requires that nearly everything be cleansed with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness." 3. **1 Peter 1:18-19** - "For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your ancestors, but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect." ### 1. "What a Friend We Have in Jesus" by Joseph M. Scriven and Charles C. Converse ``` What a friend we have in Jesus, All our sins and griefs to bear! What a privilege to carry Everything to God in prayer! Oh, what peace we often forfeit, Oh, what needless pain we bear, All because we do not carry Everything to God in prayer. ``` ### 2. "Amazing Grace" by John Newton ``` Amazing grace! How sweet the sound That saved a wretch like me! I once was lost, but now am found; Was blind, but now I see. ``` ### 3. "Break Every Chain" by Will Reagan ``` There is power in the name of Jesus There is power in the name of Jesus There is power in the name of Jesus To break every chain, break every chain, break every chain. ``` ### 4. "The Blood That Jesus Shed Way Back on Calvary" by Andre Crouch ``` The blood that Jesus shed for me, Way back on Calvary, The blood that gives me strength From day to day, It will never lose its power. ```

• Message: “Embracing Love in the New Year” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." Sermon: Embracing Love in the New Year ## Introduction As we stand at the threshold of a new year, it's a time of reflection and anticipation. We look back on the year that has passed, with its joys and challenges, and we look forward to the year that lies ahead, with its promise and potential. Today, I want to talk about a timeless and powerful theme that can guide us into this new year: Love. The last several weeks we have discussed the need for love and how that love is demonstrated in our daily lives. 1) How to make decisions by first taking others into consideration 2) How to find a mate by understanding what is true agape love and not just romantic love 3) Embracing emotional support by giving and loving 4) Understanding the importance of being a servant leader by having the right heart and the right mindset 5) The importance of encouragement ## I. Understanding Love Through Scripture ### A. The Greatest Commandment (Matthew 22:36-40) Jesus was once asked, "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" His response was profound yet simple: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself." This is the ten commandments with the first 4 being loving God and the next 6 how we love our fellowman. ### B. The Nature of Love (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) Paul gives us a beautiful description of love in his first letter to the Corinthians: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." ### C. Love as a Unifying Force (Colossians 3:10-14) and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. 11 Here there is no Gentile or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all. 12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. ## II. Love in Action: Examples from the Bible ### A. The Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) This parable exemplifies love in action. A man beaten and left for dead is ignored by his own people but helped by a Samaritan, someone from a group despised by Jews at the time. This story teaches us that love crosses cultural and social boundaries. ### B. Jesus Washing the Disciples' Feet (John 13:1-17) Jesus, the Master and Lord, washes the feet of His disciples, setting an example of humble service. This act was a powerful demonstration of love in humility and service. ## III. Encouraging Love in the Coming Year ### A. Practicing Forgiveness and Understanding Encourage your congregation to enter the new year with a heart ready to forgive. Ephesians 4:32 says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." ### B. Acts of Service Challenge each member to commit to acts of service, whether within the church, their families, or the broader community. Galatians 5:13 reminds us, "Serve one another humbly in love." ### C. Building Community Foster a sense of community in your church and beyond. Hebrews 10:24-25 encourages us to "consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together... but encouraging one another." ### D. Loving Unconditionally Encourage your congregation to love unconditionally, as Christ loves us. This means loving others without expecting anything in return. ## IV. Personal Reflection and Commitment As we prepare to enter the new year, let each of us examine our hearts and ask how we can better embody the love that Christ has shown us. Let us commit to making love a priority in our lives, in our relationships, and in our interactions with others. ## Conclusion As we say goodbye to this year and welcome the new one, let us do so with hearts full of love. Love for God, love for our neighbors, and love for ourselves. Remember, "We love because He first loved us" (1 John 4:19). Let this love be the guiding light in the year to come, illuminating our paths and warming our hearts. May the Lord bless you and keep you in His love, today, tomorrow, and always. Amen. ---

• Message: “Embracing Emotional Support: A Biblical Journey” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." Title: **"Embracing Emotional Support: A Biblical Journey"** Lesson Objective: To discuss the need for emotional support in those special times Scripture: Ruth 1: 16-17 But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. 17 Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.” *Definition of emotional support* Emotional support is an intentional verbal and nonverbal way to show care and affection for one another. By providing emotional support to another person, you offer them reassurance, acceptance, encouragement, and caring, making them feel valued and important Understand the role of the giver in provison of emotional support. Ruth 1: 16-17 a. Where is Naomi seeking her emotional support? b. Who is providing the emotional support in this scripture? 1 Samuel 18: 1-4 After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself. 2 From that day Saul kept David with him and did not let him return home to his family. 3 And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. 4 Jonathan took off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, and even his sword, his bow and his belt. a. What emotional support did Jonathan give David? b. What emotional support did David give Jonathan? Jesus’ Model of Emotional Support - **Jesus as a Supporter:** Discuss how Jesus provided emotional support to those around Him. John 11: 34-36 “Where have you laid him?” he asked. “Come and see, Lord,” they replied. 35 Jesus wept. 36 Then the Jews said, “See how he loved him!” Jesus and Lazarus’ family Focus on Jesus’ empathy and compassion, showing His emotional connection with Mary and Martha in their grief. Why did Jesus weep? Jesus and His Disciples (John 13:34-35). A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Jesus nurtured a supportive community among His disciples, teaching them to love and support one another. **Part 3: The Early Church and Community Support - **Community in Action:** Highlight how the early church practiced emotional support. - **Scripture: ** Acts 2:42-47. They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43 Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. 44 All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45 They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. 46 Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Discuss the communal life of the early Christians, focusing on how they supported each other not just materially but also emotionally. Scripture: Galatians 6:2. Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. 2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. 3 If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Explain the concept of “bearing one another's burdens” and how this is a form of emotional support. Other examples of Biblical emotional support **Job and His Friends (Initially) (Job 2:11-13):** When Job faced immense suffering, his friends Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar came to "mourn with him and to comfort him." Initially, they sat with him in silence for seven days and nights, offering support through their presence, which is a profound example of empathetic companionship in times of distress **Esther and Mordecai (Book of Esther):** Mordecai and Esther's relationship is one of mutual support. Mordecai's guidance and encouragement were crucial for Esther as she prepared to approach the king, a potentially life-threatening endeavor. . **Peter’s Restoration (John 21:15-19):** After Peter denied Jesus three times, Jesus provided emotional support and restoration to Peter after His resurrection. He gently asked Peter three times if he loved Him, allowing Peter to affirm his commitment and helping him overcome his guilt and shame . **Elijah and God (1 Kings 19:4-18):** Elijah felt deeply discouraged and isolated. God provided emotional support not through grand gestures but through gentle whispers, providing sustenance and rest, and reminding Elijah that he was not alone. **The Woman Caught in Adultery (John 8:1-11):** In this story, Jesus shows compassion and support to a woman who was publicly shamed and in danger of being stoned. He diffuses the situation and speaks to her with kindness, offering her a chance to start anew without condemnation Why is it difficult to find emotional support? Afraid to ask Matthew 7: 7-8 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: 8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened Practical Application in Today’s Context (5 minutes)** - **Small Groups:** Encourage forming small groups for sharing life experiences and supporting each other. ( Bible Study Groups) - **Mentorship Programs:** Suggest establishing mentorship relationships between older and younger members. - **Prayer and Counseling:** Emphasize the importance of prayer and, if necessary, professional counseling in dealing with emotional challenges. Conclusion Summarize need for emotional support Be a giver and a receiver Reach out and pay attention to those around you .

• Message: “PREPARING TO BE A GREAT LEADER IN 2024 AND GOING FORWARD” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." PREPARING TO BE A GREAT LEADER IN 2024 AND GOING FORWARD Embracing Servant Leadership: Insights from "Lead Like Jesus" by Ken Blanchard Lesson Objective: To discuss what makes a good leader using Christ and the Bible as examples Scriptures: Mark 10: 41-45 When the ten heard about this, they became indignant with James and John. 42 Jesus called them together and said, “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. 43 Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many Introduction: 1) Age old debate Are leaders naturally born or does one learn to be a leader? 2) Man sees the outside but God sees the heart Ken Blanchard along with Phil Hodges teaches that is important that we become servant leaders like Christ and that this can be taught. “Lead Like Christ”. Definition of Servant Leadership- A servant leader shares power, puts the needs of the employees first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible. Instead of the people working to serve the leader, the leader exists to serve the people. Robert Greenleaf Biblical Foundations**: Discuss Jesus as a model for servant leadership (Philippians 2:5-7). - **Key Characteristics of Servant Leaders**: Humility, selflessness, empathy, etc. Four components of Servant Leadership Heart Shaping Character and Motivation Discuss the importance of a leader's heart in shaping their leadership style and actions. Reference Proverbs 4:23. Self-Reflection and Prayer**: Regular self-examination and prayer can help align one's heart with God's will, fostering humility and compassion. - **Seeking Forgiveness and Offering Grace**: Embrace forgiveness, both in seeking it and offering it, to cultivate a heart of grace and understanding. **Bible References:** - **Psalm 51:10**: "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me." This verse emphasizes the importance of seeking God's help in renewing one's heart. - **Matthew 5:8**: "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God." This beatitude speaks to the value of inner purity and sincerity in leadership. a. Head Fostering the Right Beliefs and Values Talk about the mindset and beliefs of a servant leader. Discuss the importance of having a vision (Proverbs 29:18). b. Development Strategies:** c. - **Study and Meditation on Scripture**: Regularly engaging with the Bible helps in shaping a worldview that aligns with God's principles. d. - **Seeking Wise Counsel**: Engage with mentors and wise counselors who can provide guidance and perspective based on biblical principles. e. f. **Bible References:** g. - **Romans 12:2**: "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." This verse highlights the importance of a mindset that is aligned with God's will. h. - **Proverbs 3:5-6**: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." This emphasizes the importance of trusting God's wisdom over our own. i. j. Hands Putting Beliefs into Action **Development Strategies:** - **Service-Oriented Actions**: Actively look for opportunities to serve others in both big and small ways. - **Leading by Example**: Demonstrate the behaviors and actions you wish to see in others. **Bible References:** - **John 13:14-15**: "Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you." Jesus exemplifies servant leadership. - **James 2:17**: "Faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead." This verse underscores the importance of putting faith into action. k. Discuss the daily habits that reinforce servant leadership, such as prayer, reflection, and seeking feedback. Habits: Cultivating Consistency and Discipline **Development Strategies:** - **Regular Prayer and Devotion**: Establish a routine of prayer and devotion to stay connected with God and grounded in your faith. - **Accountability Structures**: Create or join accountability groups to maintain discipline in servant leadership practices. **Bible References:** - **Daniel 6:10**: Daniel consistently prayed, despite facing persecution, demonstrating the power of disciplined spiritual habits. - **1 Timothy 4:7-8**: "Train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come." This emphasizes the importance of spiritual discipline. Section 3: Practical Application and Challenges (10 minutes) - **Implementing Servant Leadership**: Share practical ways to apply servant leadership principles in various settings (workplace, community, home). - **Challenges and Misconceptions**: Address common challenges and misconceptions about servant leadership (e.g., perceived as weakness). By integrating these strategies and reflecting on the corresponding scriptures, one can develop a deeper understanding and practice of servant leadership in the model of Jesus. Remember, servant leadership is as much about personal spiritual growth as it is about leading and serving others effectively. #### Conclusion (5 minutes) - **Summarize Key Points**: Recap the main takeaways from the presentation. - **Call to Action**: Encourage the audience to reflect on how they can incorporate servant leadership into their own lives. - **Closing Scripture**: End with a relevant scripture, such as Mark 10:43-45, emphasizing the call to serve others.

• Message: “Marriage without Romance” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." Making a decision for a mate Lesson Objective: To continue the discussion on how to make the proper decision relative to finding a mate for marriage. Scripture: • Ephesians 5:25 • "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 • Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Introduction: In the world today we are quick to say I love you with a multitude of songs and movies that portray instant love and love as a requirement for marriage. Is this consistent with the Bible and if not then what do we use as a basis for making mate decisions. Four meaning of the word love used in the Bible • F Eros (ἔρως): physical love or sexual desire. Not found in the NT • Philia (ϕιλία): affectionate regard or friendship. 25 times • Agape (ἀγάπη): selfless love or charity. 116 times in NT • Storge (στοργή): familial love or natural affection. Found once Biblical Perspectives: 1. **Context Setting:** - Introduce the concept of love and marriage from a Biblical perspective. - Explain the purpose of the discussion: to explore the viability of marriages not based on traditional romantic love, in the context of Biblical teachings. 2. **Marriage in the Bible:** - Explore how marriage is depicted in the Bible, including the roles and responsibilities of spouses (Ephesians 5:22-33, Proverbs 31:10-31). Isaac and Rebekah in Genesis 24 3. **Purpose of Marriage in Biblical Times:** - Discuss the historical and cultural context of marriage in Biblical times, including arranged marriages and marriages for reasons other than romantic love. Marriages in the Bible Not Based on Romantic Love 1. **Biblical Examples:** - Examine marriages in the Bible that may not have started with romantic love, such as Jacob and Leah Ruth and Boaz. - Discuss how these relationships evolved and what they teach about the nature of love and commitment. Marriages based on romance In the Bible, there are several instances where marriages are depicted with elements of romance or deep affection. Here are five examples: 1. **Jacob and Rachel (Genesis 29):** - Jacob's love for Rachel is one of the most explicit examples of romantic love in the Bible. He worked seven years to marry her, and the Bible describes his deep affection for her, saying, "Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her" (Genesis 29:20). 2. Solomon and the Shulammite Woman (Song of Solomon):** - The Song of Solomon (also known as the Song of Songs) is a poetic book of the Bible that celebrates romantic and physical love between a man and a woman, traditionally understood to be King Solomon and the Shulammite woman. The entire book is a dialogue between the lovers, expressing their mutual affection and desire. 3. **Boaz and Ruth (Book of Ruth):** - The relationship between Boaz and Ruth is often seen as a blend of love, respect, and duty. Ruth's loyalty to her mother-in-law Naomi brings her to Boaz's field. Boaz is impressed by Ruth's dedication and eventually acts as her kinsman-redeemer, marrying her. Their story is seen as one of mutual respect and affection. The love here is the love that Ruth had for Naomi 4. **Samson and Delilah (Judges 16):** - Although the story of Samson and Delilah is complex and ultimately tragic, it begins with a strong romantic attraction. Judges 16:4 says, "Sometime later, he fell in love with a woman in the Valley of Sorek whose name was Delilah." Their story is often interpreted as a cautionary tale about misplaced love and betrayal. 5. Discuss the potential benefits of marriages built on foundations other than romantic love, such as shared faith and commitment. Applying Biblical Principles:** 1. - How can Biblical teachings inform decisions about marriage today? 2. - Discuss the relevance of these teachings in contemporary society. 3. How do current societal norms about love and marriage align or conflict with Biblical teachings? **Summary of Key Points:** - Recap the main insights from the discussion, emphasizing the Biblical perspectives shared. - Highlight diverse viewpoints and common themes. 2. **Closing Thoughts:** - Invite final reflections, focusing on how this discussion might impact personal views or actions. Role of God:** In many of these stories, God plays a significant role in guiding relationships and providing for the needs of individuals, which is a central theme in many Biblical marriages. In conclusion, the Bible presents a rich tapestry of marital relationships, showing a range of dynamics from marriages that grew into love to those founded on love. These stories continue to be a source of inspiration, reflection, and guidance for many people today.

• Message: “Guided by the Word Part 2” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." Guided by the Word: Making Decisions in the Light of Scripture" Part 2 Lesson Objective: To empower us to make wise, God-centered decisions in our lives by understanding and applying Biblical principles. Main Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." 1. Seek God’s Wisdom First - James 1:5** *Explanation*: This verse emphasizes the importance of seeking divine wisdom in our decision-making. God’s wisdom is pure, peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere (James 3:17). When we lack understanding, we are encouraged to ask God, who gives generously. *Example*: Imagine a student facing a choice between two job offers. One is financially lucrative but requires compromising some ethical standards. The other is less profitable but aligns with Christian values. Seeking God’s wisdom through prayer and reflection on His Word can guide the student to choose the job that aligns with their faith and values. **2. Align Decisions with God’s Word - Psalm 119:105** *Explanation*: God's Word should be the foundation upon which we base our decisions. It acts as a 'lamp' and a 'light', providing guidance and clarity in a world that can often be confusing and misleading. *Example*: A young adult is in a relationship and is considering becoming more intimate. By aligning their decision with God’s Word, which advocates for purity and commitment (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), they decide to wait until marriage, thus honoring God with their body and relationship. **3. Prayerful Consideration - Philippians 4:6-7** *Explanation*: This passage teaches us to bring all our anxieties and decisions to God in prayer. In doing so, we are promised peace that transcends understanding, guarding our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. *Example*: A student is anxious about their future career path. Instead of succumbing to anxiety, they bring their concerns to God in prayer, seeking His guidance and peace. This prayerful consideration opens their heart to recognize God’s direction, perhaps through opportunities and insights they hadn’t considered before. **4. Seek Godly Counsel - Proverbs 11:14** *Explanation*: This verse highlights the value of seeking advice from wise, spiritually mature individuals. Godly counsel can provide clarity, different perspectives, and confirmation in our decision-making process. *Example*: A young adult is considering dropping out of college due to financial strain. Before making a decision, they seek counsel from their pastor, a Christian mentor, and their parents. Through these discussions, they receive practical advice, encouragement, and explore options like scholarships or part-time work, which they hadn't considered. **5. Consider God’s Will and Purpose - Romans 12:2** *Explanation*: This scripture encourages us not to conform to the world's patterns but to be transformed by renewing our minds. This transformation helps in discerning God’s will – His good, pleasing, and perfect will. *Example*: A graduate is offered a high-paying job in a field they are not passionate about. Instead of immediately accepting the offer, they reflect on how this position aligns with their God-given talents and passions. They decide to pursue a career that aligns more closely with their spiritual gifts and sense of calling, trusting that God’s will is not just about financial gain but fulfilling purpose. **6. Act in Faith and Trust in God - Hebrews 11:1** *Explanation*: Faith involves trust in God’s promises and assurance about things we cannot see. When making decisions, this faith guides us, even when the outcome is not fully known or understood. *Example*: A young couple is considering whether to start a mission abroad, which involves significant risk and uncertainty. They decide to move forward, acting in faith, trusting that God has called them to this mission, even though they cannot see all the details of how it will unfold. **Conclusion and Call to Action:** In conclusion, each of these scriptures offers a unique perspective on how to make decisions grounded in faith and aligned with God’s will. As you face various crossroads in life, remember these principles. This week, I challenge you to apply at least one of these scriptures in a decision you are making. Whether it's consulting God's Word, seeking wise counsel, or stepping out in faith, let your decisions be a reflection of your trust and commitment to following God's path for your life. Let us be a community that not only learns God's principles but lives them out in every decision we make.

• Message: “Guided By The Word- Part 1” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." "Guided by the Word: Making Decisions in the Light of Scripture" Lesson Objective: To empower us to make wise, God-centered decisions in our lives by understanding and applying Biblical principles. Main Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." Introduction: In a world filled with choices and crossroads, especially for young adults, making decisions can be daunting. As followers of Christ, we are not left to navigate this journey alone. The Bible offers us timeless wisdom and principles that can guide our decision-making process. Today, we will explore how to apply these Biblical truths to the choices we face, ensuring that our decisions honor God and lead us towards His best for our lives. Learn how to make decisions Decisions not based on emotions or reactions Process can be applied to any time that we need to make a decision Definitions: 1. Decision-Making: The process of making choices by identifying a decision, gathering information, and assessing alternative resolutions. 2. Biblical Principles: Fundamental truths or guidelines found in the Bible that instruct and guide moral, ethical, and spiritual conduct. Absolutely, considering the impact of our decisions on others is a key principle found throughout the Bible. The Scriptures emphasize love, compassion, and consideration for others, which should be central to the Christian way of life. Here are a few biblical principles and scriptures that highlight the importance of considering others in our decision-making: 1. **Love Your Neighbor as Yourself**: One of the greatest commandments, as stated by Jesus, is to "love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:39). This commandment implies that in our decisions, we should consider the welfare and interests of others just as we would our own. 2. **The Golden Rule**: In Matthew 7:12, Jesus teaches, "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you." This principle, often called the Golden Rule, directly applies to decision-making. It encourages us to consider how our choices will affect others and to act towards others as we would wish them to act towards us. 3. **The Example of Christ**: Philippians 2:4-5 says, "Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus." Jesus’ life was a testament to selflessness and considering the needs of others. Our decisions should reflect this Christ-like attitude of valuing others’ well-being. 4. **Building Up the Community**: In 1 Corinthians 10:24, Paul writes, "No one should seek their own good, but the good of others." This principle is particularly relevant in a community or fellowship setting. Decisions should be made with the health and edification of the community in mind. 5. **Avoiding Stumbling Blocks for Others**: Romans 14:13 advises, "Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister." This scripture reminds us to consider how our actions and decisions might affect the faith or conscience of our brothers and sisters in Christ. 6. **Practicing Empathy and Understanding**: Hebrews 4:15-16 encourages us to empathize with others, as Jesus did. Understanding the struggles and perspectives of others can significantly influence how we make decisions, especially those that impact them directly. In conclusion, biblically, the effect of our decisions on others is not just a consideration but a fundamental aspect of living out our faith. It reflects the love, compassion, and empathy that are at the heart of Jesus' teachings. As Christians, we are called to make decisions that not only benefit us personally but also contribute positively to the lives of those around us, thereby reflecting the love of Christ in our actions.

• Message: “Christ In Me” from Elder Clarence

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." Sermon: Christ in me Introduction Galatians 2 v 20: I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me. • What does it mean to be crucified with Christ? • Understanding Christ’s sacrifice • The world can only see Christ through us otherwise the Bible is just a library of history books Body 1. What does it mean to be crucified with Christ?  What do you fight for? Matthew 6 v 21: for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.  What are you afraid of? Fear is a consequence of disbelief.  Romans 8 v 5: For those who are in accord with the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are in accord with the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. 2. Understanding God’s gracious gift.  Galatians 2 v 21: I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.  Galatians 3 v 11: But that no man is justified by the law in the sight of God, it is evident: for, The just shall live by faith.  Roman 8 v 15: For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.  Remember the day you repented, you heard God and you believed  Romans 8 v 14: For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. 3. A lesson from adolescent David  Goliath about 2.7m tall called out for Israel’s Champion  Men of Israel were afraid  David the youngest son of 8 sons was sent to bring food to his three eldest brothers  Everyone saw a Giant David saw an uncircumcised Philistine.  Eliab saw his little bro he didn’t see the Christ in him  Faith may give you a unique perspective, faith may only be evident to you if you believe anyway Christ will live in you.  The death of Goliath was not the greatest thing that happened that day. Conclusion • Repent • Dwell in fellowship with God • Believe in the promises of God

• Message: “Wisdom The Desire of All Part 1I” from Joe Summers

  A message from the series "Sunday Service." Wisdom The Desire of All- Part II Lesson Objective: To continue the discussion on the importance of searching for and receiving wisdom. Scriptures: Book of Proverbs A. The Bible discusses worldly and heavenly wisdom in James Chapter 3. The chapter discusses the abuse in the use of the tongue and the lack of true wisdom when we use worldly thoughts -- James 3: 13-17 B. Some blessings are conditional and some are non- conditional- verses Chapter 2: 1-4 are conditional ( IF) ( Then) C. We must continually seek wisdom and understanding and discernment – 2: 1-3 D. What is the value of wisdom and understanding 2: 4 E. Wisdom is better than silver or gold-- Chapter 8: 10-11 F. What do you gain?- Chapter 2 Verses 5-8 and 9- 15 G. Wisdom is to hate what God hates 8: 13 H. God is wisdom—8:17 I. Wisdom is to be kept close to us at all times- 7: 1-4 J. If we fail to keep wisdom close than we are like the unwise in Chapter 7 a. Verse 5—we are seduced by a stranger b. 7:7 and 1:4 – what happens when there is no understanding c. 7: 7-8 we sometimes do things in the dark but we cannot hide from God. d. What is the first step in use of wisdom????? e. She seduces him and he falls from Grace. K. We must constantly seek wisdom and understanding to fight temptation a. Verse 7: 24-25